We all have a choice on how we think, how we speak and how we treat others. Our attitudes are not byproducts of our circumstances – they are exactly what we make them to be, we have the power and yet do we use it wisely? If you seek the negative, you will find it. Always. But the same holds true for the positive so why do so many of us choose not to look for it? What a sad and exhausting way to live, surrounded by the black hole of negative energy created by our own attitudes. Lobsters pull down others because it is easier than lifting themselves up. Lobsters are everywhere, all around us. I am sure you know one… maybe you are one. Regardless, we have to make the conscious choice and take the effort to not let them stop us from getting out of the pot. And when we do get there – wherever that is for us, instead of pushing and pulling others down… wouldn’t it be awesome if we stopped and helped each other out?